Confused

I'm so confused right now! My mind is mixed up between friendship and love affair...

When Samantha's superior saw her resume on her pc, she directly confess to her. Eventhough Samantha was trying to deny by saying she's not looking for a job and nothing is going on, she doesn't need to speculate. I agreed with her superior when she says "Silly you, I can't pretend not knowing and wait until everything is firmed then only ask, by then it will be too late."

Yes, I can't wait until everything is "rigid" then only voice out. At that point of time, I am just asking for reason "why" but not solution "how". Everything will be too late to find out, to identify with, to resolve - it's over.

Think wise.