十句話

永遠不要對父母說的十句話

1、好了，好了，知道，真羅嗦！

2、有事嗎，沒事？那掛了啊。
（父母打電話，也許只想說說話，我們能否理解他們的用意，不要匆忙掛了電話？）
3、說了你也不懂，別問了！

4、跟你說了多少次不要你做，做又做不好。
（一些他們已經力不能及的事，我們因為關心而制止，但這樣讓他們覺得自己很無用）

5、你們那一套，早就過時了。
（父母的建議，也許不能起到作用，可我們是否能換一種回應的方式？）

6、叫你別收拾我的房間，你看，東西找都找不到！
（自己的房間還是自己收拾好，不收拾，也不要拂了父母的好意）

7、我要吃什麼我知道，別夾了！
（盼著我們回家的父母總想把所有關心融在特意做的菜裡，我們默默領情就好）

8、說了別吃這些剩菜了，怎麼老不聽啊！
（他們一輩子的節約習慣，很難改，讓他們每次盡量少做點菜就好）

9、我自己有分寸，不要老說了，煩不煩.

10、這些東西說了不要了，堆在這裡做什麼啊！
（他們總想把跟我們成長有關的東西都收藏起來，也許佔滿房間，多年後，看到自己還是嬰兒時的小棉襖，難道不是很驚喜嗎？）

相信很多人都或多或少的說了這10句中的一句或幾句，但請體諒我們的爸爸媽媽，作為子女，我們都不要再說這樣的話，人生很短，一定要珍惜你身邊的親人，愛人，朋友。不要等到一切都無法挽回了，你才知道這些人對你是多麼的重要，善待生命，孝敬爸爸媽媽，要知道，不管你做錯了什麼，爸爸媽媽都會原諒你的，『家』才是你永久的港灣！！

Dad

I am not particularly close to my dad albeit many people feel I resemble my dad.
I am not my dad's favourite child amongst my siblings and I couldn't help myself being a green eye monster when my dad did it so obviously. Nevertheless, I never asked my mum why nor blamed my dad for the "unfair treatment". We indeed were very poor at that point of time, but I respect my dad for being the sole bread winner.

Perhaps I am a quiet person or maybe because of our legacy, we are not good to express our loves but we know deep inside our hearts, we care a lot and mean a great deal to each other. When I was still young, I used my pocket money to buy flowers, cakes or make cards for my mum & dad to show my gratitude to them. Now, we all have grown up and we don't do that anymore. We "substitute" with money as an act of love & concern.

Almost a month I did not speak to my parents until I dropped my dad a call in past 2 weeks. I know he's working and living by himself in Ipoh at current. I know he has to work till wee hours, bearing with the pain from bone spur yet nobody is taking care of him, I worry and heartache to learn that fact. Tears linger in my eyes after I hung up.

I wish I could do more as a child to thank a father in whatever possible.

Plain relaxing

Had a great weekend!!
Although not any particular famous vacation spot, yet... just I love it - plain, simple, relaxing!

Thank you.

Apologize

I apologize for my previous entry. I did not realize my anxiety was overcome by my anger which I think it is improper and immature... I'm sorry.

Disappointment

You never failed me....
I hate the taste of disappointment! Now, chew it and swallow!!!

Love note pt.2

Love notes in the house are not only 'specially' dedicated to me and Fei, but also to her husband and son. The house itself aldy messy and with the love notes around, makes it look like a "prison"! Just so many rules to obey, so annoying and so tiring... but has anyone give a damn to them? Who cares, at least I'm not! :P

Anyway, seems like keeping quiet is not the right choice, we have to retaliate!

At first, I was really teed off, crumbles the note and throws it into the basket. Now, we choose to "reply"! Hehe.. Wonder how will she react when she sees our reply :p






































Notice "9 spoons and 3 forks" on the note? It was newly added to make sure we did not"ter-tapao" her utensils and throw away after we finished our packed food. What a "lovely" gesture!! =P

Love note pt.1

I didn't notice there was a love note sticked on the sliding glass door until the moment I look up this morning. I recognise the handwriting - it was from my sister, Fei. I was curious and start reading... and pondering why is my sister writing this.. so, I asked her while she was still lazing in her bed.

She said "..Read the note behind it....". Oh, I didn't realise my sister was actually pasted her love note onto the other one. The love note was written by our "beloved" landlady and WHY THE HECK I DIDN"T SEE IT LAST NIGHT WHEN I WAS BLOWING MY HAIR ??!

This love note doesn't sound lovely at all and that's surprising to know my sister was "replying" my landlady, oh, how lovely they are! :P

Wanna know what they have written, check out the pictures here... :P



















The last line was "added" by me :p

Touched

Last night was watching one of the local variety show on tv. This show explores and recommends foods & beverages in Singapore (also neighbour countries), as well as... fascinating places to hang out, fashions, toys.. etc etc. Yesterday's episode has an additional interview of 2 local "celebrities" (Singapore Superstar) whom are getting married soon. Anyway, it was a short interview and nothing special about it except when they were requested to express their gratitude to their partner. It was started by the guy thanking the gf for being there for him... he was emotional, touched but choked back his tears.. I can see tears well in her eyes when she was telling the same to the guy... awww... how sweet!

Give in

I supposed none of mankind like to lose.
Why? Win always make us feel good. However, win doesn't mean everything. Sometimes, it may cause of arguments, jealousy, misunderstandings.. etc etc.

Give in doesn't mean lay down your arms. Give in comes from maturity, understanding, tolerance...
Giving in may not be easy, but you may gain detriment and avoiding unnecessary spat... why not?

Who says a l0ser must be a dim-witted huh? :P
So, you can practise to be a l0ser from today onwards... hehehe.

Appreciate on giving in to me but... I'd rather learning to give in than wanna keep winning.
Thank you *winks* :P

Dry

I never like air-conditioner in my life despite I love winter :P

I scared of coldness and it makes my skin very dry especially when people like me seldom drink a drop of water day-in, day-out. Other than dry, my skin feel itch and rough sometimes. Whenever this happens, I will rush to the washroom and apply some lotion on my skin.

Thus, I like to adjust the air-conditioner in the office and normally my "partner" will adjust the timing or turn it off for me... hehe ;P

Psst.. I'm not a Polar Bear mah :P

Ancient

I always interested into ancient stuff - buildings (houses), clothing, shoes... ornaments, festivals, foods, history.. bla bla bla.

I like their clothing and shoes becuz they look very unique, beautiful, colorful and of cuz they are just too expensive to "own". Even I may found some (look alike) in China, I don't think I will wear them out, they are just too precious and you wouldn't want people look at you one-of-a-kind :P

I bought a pair of Japanese clog, never wore once and now still "quarantine" inside my wardrobe. I would be very happy if I able to get these....















































































So, don't be surprise if I tell you all this while I so wish to try on chinese opera outfit and make-up!Hehe~ :P

BKK

Was discussing about BKK trip in this morning, eventhough just 5 months away, but thinking of it just enliven me~~!!! :P

Went to BKK last Dec with my colleague, albeit a short trip yet, fun! It is really a shopping paradise, if you are not a label-whore, BKK should be a shopping heaven to you!

Really looking forward to my year end trip although the number of H1N1 cases soars globally. Thailand confirmed has more than 1 thousand infections and another 2 fatalities recently. Though, it means H1N1 virus is harmless yet it is important to practise personal hygiene.

Was arguing should we go on 23rd - 27th or 24th - 28th but DD kept arguing with me, 23rd - 28th !!
I told him, we don't need to spend up to 6 days in BKK alone. I didn't catch his drift when he was telling me "Don't really get to see stuff also nvm, get what I mean?". Seriously, I don't get it at first... but now, finally I got it liao! Haha... Awww... how sweet!! Thank you~ :P