Platonic Relationship

Fei said this to me "It is impossible that a man and a woman can be best pal or buddy, no way!"
She was so affirmed with her statement that platonic friendship does not exist. I was pondering... hhmmm, is that so? I supposed it is. I felt so because most of my guy friends turned "buddies" became "half-stranger" in the end. I can talk and share about anything and everything if I'm close to a guy. Perhaps, when we get too close to each other, crossing the bottom line to intimacy issues, I may have given them the wrong signal. Yes, I could have stop it if I spill the beans, but most of the times my “indirect hints” just doesn’t work out.

Well, most of them were one-sided affection and love which normally ruins the friendship in the end. When the truth finally surfaces, disappointment and anger are two possible ends to the relationship. When we both mutually agreed to “cool down”, back to square and to part ways before anyone else gets hurt even further, it normally turns ugly, very indeed. I’d lost many of them whom were really my “soul-mate”.

Yes, I admit I am not good at handling relationships. Anyhow, I really enjoyed their companionship and thank for giving me the support when I need people the most.