True Love?

This afternoon I was chatting with a colleague on MSN because she has nothing to do and out of boredom, she asked me “Who is your true love?” Hmm... What a tricky question! Then I told her “Define what is true love, please.” Well, her answer is – someone whom is willing to die for you. Wow, what an answer – typical answer you could find in Chinese drama or novel. I think that is too “standard” and it took me a while to think before answering her. I told her “I don’t really believe in true love...”

If you set certain “criteria” in a relationship and benchmark your loved one against precise “standard” to define that is true love, I feel that is very tiring. What is true love? Someone whom is willing to die for you? Someone whom is willing to give in to you every single time? Someone whom is willing to satisfy you in materials? Someone listens to you all the times? Someone will not break your heart and will not let you shed a tear? Someone whom is willing to take care of you and your family? The answer is just too personalized and depends on individual very much.

I guess to know one is your true love or not, use your heart to feel instead of using your eyes to see or using your ear to listen...