Respect

Once, there was a close friend told me this "Why do I always have the feel that you do not respect me?"

I was shocked when he told me this because I never realized that myself, at all. I supposed all this while we were close friends, thus... naturally I'd think that he'd accept my attitude. Maybe it was due to the way I talk, my expression, the way I react or the way I respond. We are so used to behave the way we are, so when there's no one "bellyache" about us, basically we "thought" everything is fine and changing is not necessary, therefore we continue to be the way who we are. Someone doesn't want to bring it up, perhaps he/she doesn't want to hurt the relationship or he/she "believes" that we'd realize ourselves in one day and transform - *p0of* :P

You may not be feeling good when you know the fact that you are actually "annoying" someone all this while... but, but.. it'd be good to know the fact that you ought to "dump" away the "unwanted" and change it to the "wanted" criterion...

Appreciate DD tells me how you feel and what you don't like... I really did not realize that all this while...