My friend once told me this "If I've promised to help you, I make sure I'll do it for you, no matter what. If I am not able to help, I'll not give you my words." I've never doubted it because he never gave me any empty promises before.
That is the bad thing in offering your help to someone when you really mean it a good deed, try your very best to help regardless of the outcome. When someone is "receiving" the good deed, then she/he will start to expect something unknowingly or inadvertently.
When our expectation is not being filled, we start to feel awful and... we knew deep inside our heart that nobody's fault and we try not to put the blame on anyone. This is the complication and complexity being human. We just like complicating things...
Should I be optimism in expectation or shouldn't I?
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