Maybe I’m not you, I don’t know what’s on your mind, I don’t understand how you feel, I don’t know how much you suffer, but 1 thing I can tell you forsure, let go the past and look forward the future. Whatever had happened is already over. We could not turn back the time. After years and so many people had spoken to you, I thought you have pull through and yet, it’s really shocking me that you tell me you are planning to look for him again. Is that necessary? Are you still looking for the “answer” out there? You already have the answer on your mind, haven’t you?
I know it sounds merciless but I have to “remind” you once again, he already moved on and found his new life. To him, the past is just a piece of history, part of the process in his life and becomes a vague form in future. Now, you are not “helping” him to “refresh” his memories but “interrupting” his life and “invade” his privacy. This isn’t going to help a bit in current situation and you may end up realizing you are taking “unnecessary actions” and causing you to tear apart even deeper, eventually.
Instead of leaving him a “ghastly” experience and memories, why not walk away and leave him sweet memories in mind?
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